So this is it
I mean nothing to you
I no longer exist in your world
There is no contact number for me
In your cellphone
anymore…
Kait King © 2015
So this is it
I mean nothing to you
I no longer exist in your world
There is no contact number for me
In your cellphone
anymore…
Kait King © 2015
The modern breakup of love.
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Yes! 😊
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It’s a very painful feeling, blocking the number and still watching it, breaking up digitally, feelings never detached.
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I actually prefer to express myself digitally but when it comes to breaking up, have the guts to tell me man!
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Damn right!🙌
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How are you all feeling today??
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Very good thanks..and you?🙂🙏🌻
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Great❤
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Sad
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🙏😔🌻
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I’ve learned so much – nearly everything in terms of the heart’s resilience – through time spent and living alone. Most regrettable decisions come as a negative reaction to another’s action.
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Yes, it’s the reacting that unravels one. I learned don’t panic and respond, don’t react. But those are the Joy’s of age and wisdom I guess…just when you don’t need it because you’re too old to do anything to panic about!😂😂😂 When I say “you” I mean all of us!
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Sounds so familiar. I’ve been right there … didn’t always work out well in the short term, but long term – today – fate’s done an excellent job of getting things right.
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I suspect many of us have been there. It’s a wonderfully peaceful place to be able to sit with oneself.
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I’ve discovered Self Love over the past few years. I know it’s so cliche, but if one’s never had it, it’s newness is liberating.
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Absolutely! I’m glad you’ve come back to yourself!🙂
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I left a message or two ? on FB messenger
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Recieved first one and replied…
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I write almost exclusively in the morning. Always have, but living alone now I’ve found deep serenity and calm. I’m really good with my alone time and never lonely. Okay, I really like company and companionship, too
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I know ExAcTlY what you mean
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Found Kuched on Facebook and sent msg
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Okay, thanks. I haven’t quite set it up yet. Only two followers I think. Good reminder for me to get off my butt. I haven’t pursued social media with my posts.
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One of them is moi!
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LOL
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I trust you’re on Instagram and other media?
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I am 🙂
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Just logged on FB. Thanks.
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I’m assuming he’d lost all sense of reality and etiquette. Well that’s just shitty of the Cad Bastard.
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Haha! 😁 Just young, dumb and full of…um…shit!😊
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Oh my, I’m relieved I’m only two of those things now. 🙂
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌
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I guess I’ll eventually get old-ish. Seriously, I’m not ready to age 🤨 And, I’ve defeated dumb at conception. Define “Shitty” …
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Oh I’m still 12 on the inside…
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I’m all over the place with my age. Sometimes I feel like I was born middle aged. Others as though I’m forever 21.
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Haha! Yeah sometimes I feel like I’m a hundred!!
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I’ve learned to find good lighting on bad days. Seriously, my mirror is the most forgiving, dishonest SOB I know. But, I love her for it 🙂
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Haha! 😁 No lighting?? oh candle light…just one, in like a giant warehouse…😁
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You are so funny. I like it … I need bright, bright light … Dim lights cause dark shadows.
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😁well thank you, that’s a great compliment to recieve🙏. I like a warm glow, I must say😊
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You’re welcome. There’s sincerity and transparency in your words. Obviously, intelligence and wit.
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And yourself! The banter and the serious stuff I have enjoyed immensely. Sometimes in order to shine one needs someone yo turn on the light 😉😎
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As well, Kait. I enjoy communicating openly, but respectfully … You’re so right about turning on the light. I’m coming out of a veil of emasculation …
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Oh how interesting, but awful for you. I’m curious to know more. Will chat on FB
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Ok
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I’m never on messenger. Bit of a dunce, sorry. Can you message me?
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I just have🙂
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It looks like you’re not logged in…
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Define shitty? Or full of shit? 2 very different meanings…😁
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Oops 😬… Yes, I meant full of shit?
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Ok, for me, full of shit is empty promises, hot air and BS
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Perfect definition. Misleading someone is shitty and unnecessary in any circumstance. When did truth leave town?
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I know…I do blame my poor decision making though. I shouldn’t have been so naive!!🙄
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Emotion is a terrible enabler of poor decisions of the heart. Naïveté is a road we all cross and leave behind once hurt digs in.
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Yes this is very true. I think that’s one of the reasons I escaped everything I knew to knowing nothing and being alone.
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💪❤
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I have had this happen to me, but I still keep their number NOT in the chance to be together but to know they are ok. I never have been able to burn a bridge completely
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No, I’ve been a bit the same. It’s good to still care, we must have cared a lot about them at some stage! 🙂
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Nice!!! Kisses ❤ ❤ ❤
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Thank you! 🤗 and kisses to you too 😊😘
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Sooooo been there! Ugh, what a horrible feeling. I hope you’re not going through it, hugz to you ❤ Have a beautiful day 🙂
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Oh I know! Fortunately I’m not, just a memory, but thank you so much 😊 peace, love n light to you!
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I’ll share a crappy story – a friend of mine fell head over heels for a woman. He bought expensive jewelry for her. The next day, she texted him “yeah, not interested anymore.” He was heartbroken. I’m guilty of relationship crap via text. Even my ex-husband and I STILL have horrible habits of fighting via g-chat/text/etc. I am really trying to force myself to stay quiet via text and talk in person to eliminate misunderstanding. I am basically re-teaching myself how to communicate, because text is all I have been doing. I basically ruined my last relationship with all my texting. A lot to say, I relate to this so much, sadly.
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Oh I’m sorry, it’s really hard not to retaliate or respond if someone is having a go at you. I’ve learned over much time to just keep quiet or wait to get some face time. Otherwise all that happens is a fuelling of the fire… and sometimes silence speaks volumes! 🙂 I’m also worried that we will lose the ability to communicate face to face. And that would be sad 😔
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It is a sad reality of relationships today
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Yes, it’s crap really!
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Hate it when that happens, Kait, I’ll Skype you anytime; you know I will. I’m there if you need me anytime 😃💋💞💋💞
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Thanks Dave, bless you 🙂 xoxo
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xoxo 😄
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Well played. Its a justification of the technology/love twists that have emanated… Creative post though.
Blog on!
Check out my previously posted scribbles via https://jamesmayorblogdotcom1.wordpress.com/
Regards:
James
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Thank you James 🙂 I will do!
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Welcome again.
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Well thank you very much 🙂
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Be sure to drop by my platform anytime.
Regards:
James
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Thank you James – I will do that! I am writing a new poetry book I hope to release real soon – all unseen work, so I have been super busy at the moment! 🙂 Apologies in advance if it takes me a little while to get to you! 🙂
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All the best.
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Cheers 🙂 and to you my friend!
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cool.
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That reminded me of my experience when my ex broke up with me over the phone when I was just about to come out of the subway so she said something like “Don’t ever call me again!” *interference* “What? I’m sorry, I didn’t hear you..” She said “I’m breaking up with you!” *she hangs up* .. Terrible breakup, I tell you my friends!
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Oh that is awful! She was obviously not the right one for you 🙂
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I had a guy do it by text after @3 months – cowardly
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Y’know what? Thank dog you found out after 3 months and not longer! You don’t want someone so insipid! 🙂
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Agreed!
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Digital existence.
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It is!
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I hate that feeling…
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Yesssss! 😦
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Reblogged this on Sexual Reminisces and commented:
Recognize the signs.
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You got it! 😉
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