If you can
allow yourself
to love me baby
I’ll hold you,
rock you,
Love you through every night
If you’re not scared to
show me baby
I’ll do my very best
to make it
all right
But I feel you haven’t
let go baby
And it’s not really all
about me
You have to let your feelings
show baby
You have to love me
or let me
be free
© Kait King, 2015

The last four lines are devastating in the quietest possible way. You have to love me or let me be free. Not an ultimatum born from anger. A boundary born from self respect. The kind that takes years to find the courage to say out loud. The kind that costs something even as you say it because part of you is still hoping they will choose to stay.
There is a whole relationship living inside these few lines. The patience. The hope. The slow realisation. The moment you finally admit that waiting for someone to arrive emotionally is its own kind of loneliness.
Kait has always known how to say the hard thing simply. And simple is always the hardest thing to write.
— Khadija | @sheknowsall.blog
The bravest thing you can say to someone you love is this. Choose me fully or release me completely. There is no dignity in the in between.
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Oh your comments are just blowing me away. Thank you so much for your comprehension of my work. You “get” it. Thank you ✨️💃🌻
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Kait, this just made my day. Your work has this clarity that cuts through all the noise, it doesn’t soften the hard truths, it just names them plainly. And that’s so rare. Thank you for writing the things that need to be said. 💙
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Beautiful❤✨
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Thank you Shreya 🙏🌻
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beautiful.
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Thank you🙂🌻
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Beautiful and filled with love….
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🙏🌻🙂many thanks!
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Its more of a freedom for me?
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That’s wonderful!🙂🙏
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Here a go,good wishesas usual form Sunday blank columnist,,
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😂 I’m positive you came up with something!🙏🙂
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As usual glad to get your attentions
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It isn’t easy, you have done exceptionally well!😁👍🙏
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Very humble from you.. thanks much..
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😁
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Lovely
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Thank you!🙂🙏
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WOW, WOW, AND WOW!!!!
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Awww! Thank you 😊🙏
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Well penned
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🙏🙂
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Wow! Beautiful ❤
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Thank you!☺
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Romantically beautiful and true. 🙂
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Thank you Charlie, wishful thinking often times!
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You welcome, Kait. 🙂
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😊
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beautiful
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Thank you kindly 🙂
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